Another must, especially if you're out on the prowl, is the second-Thursday-of-the-month Blackout party. You should beware (or perhaps behold) "things that go bump in the dark."
Dark and SwankyBar. There’s no confusion about the vibe here. It’s clearly designed to be a hookup, “cruisy” Bar. But, not to the point you feel unsafe.
Bring your own meat night and free burgers are a great chance to meet guys from the neighborhood. Drop by on Wrdnesday or Froday evenings to meet the locals (and adventurous tourists).